It’s not as easy as they make it out to be on TV. In fact, the process is a lot more complicated than just signing a piece of paper. The decision itself is fraught with a lot of indecisions. It involves not just you, but also the people around you. And the repercussions will be with you for the rest of your life. Like scars and scarred tissue, it affects you both outside, and in.
Making the decision to divorce is never incidental, always painful. You have to deal with the doubt. You have to battle with the regrets. You have to face the consequences. Alone. The thing about divorce is, no one can help you. And that is what makes it frightening.
I know. I’ve been there, done that.